Whether trying to start a fire or spread the flames, a little secret is a hot way to ignite attention. The best secrets are the “accidental” ones. They are all the more naughty.

Try wearing some scandalous lingerie and bending, stretching, bouncing, or rushing a little too much so that it “accidentally” falls out, or gives a peep, for your lover’s eyes.

This will make the apple of your eye think you always dress like that and/or have very hot thoughts about peeling off the cloths down to the lingerie.

So we’re all looking for ways to keep the relationship more than alive. We all want it alive and humping. So how do we keep the humps alive and original?

There’s always the old fall-back of changing the sex location. (Hey baby, how about we “dine” in the living room?)  There are always guides to new erotic positions. (Hey baby, how about we take up yoga?) But nothing really beats mixing it up.

That is why I’d recommend “52 Weeks of Naughty Nights,” a grab bag of ways to mix it up. Some of the ideas are cliché (“dining” on the coffee table in the living room rather than the couch) but others are a bit more naughty. Curious? Pick it up and see what you grab in this bag . . .

Here’s an article about a poor lady who has never had an orgasm, despite her numerous partners. Its an interesting little read, and it definitely sounds like this lady needs to learn to express herself to her partners better. Here’s a clip of the response:

It’s possible their technique is at fault - men can be remarkably ignorant on how to please a woman in bed - but as all of your partners have failed to help you reach orgasm, it seems it could be more your problem than theirs.

Here’s a movie that might help her, and her boyfriend, out.

This article gives some great pointers for the kissing the pubic region. The porn pictured below features Violet Blue, whose book is featured in the article. Check ‘em out:

For loving the ladies:

1. Try flat-tongued figure eights over the entire length of her vulva to build excitement, as opposed to focusing on orgasm.

2. Don’t be rough with that clit, until your dame is good and ready for it (and you’ll know when, ’cause she’ll be grabbing your head!).

3. And get your hands dirty, goddammit. Making a chick come good is a whole body affair.

As for sucking cock, here are a few ground rules:

1. Blow your nose first because you gotta be able to breathe, right?

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Get comfy ’cause you’re going to be there a while (same thing with pussy), and…

3. Make noises. Many men love it when you slobber over their dick.