Ok, imagine the statues with flesh instead of metal. Pretty hot huh?  How come an actual photo of people doing this is porn, but in metal it is art. So this, though it depicts the same position, is not art.

Curious . . .

Anyway, what this couple is in the Tantric position Yab-Yum. This basic position can lead into many others. It is a great starting place because it offers g-spot stimulation for the woman, and is a position in which the man has an easy time refraining from ejaculation. So she gets hotter, and he gets his one-eyed-spitting-head under control. Here’s how it’s done:
1.    Man seated almost Indian style, but with the legs held together loosely
2.    Woman wraps legs around man, raising herself up against him in order for penetration to take place, and the couple proceeds to tickle and rub each other into increased horniness
3.    When the couple is ready, the woman lowers herself onto his penis
4.    This position is gentle, and he can increase sensation with mild thrusts

Yab-Yum can move into all kinds of Tantric positions such as the Star, Butterfly, and the Cocoon. The Cocoon is very easy; she simply lifts her knees while placing her hands behind his neck and he holds her weight with her hands across her lower back and rocks her back and forth (a very yummy, romantic way to stimulate the g-spot).

I learned a bunch of other stuff about the Yab-Yum, so watch for an upcoming blog about this crazy sex term.

“Become comfortable (and proud!) of your vagina and your physical, animal sexual desires.”

Sounds like a rule of thumb for female sexuality. Yet this quote isn’t from Female Sexuality 101. It is from Sex Secrets of the American Geisha, a book by Korean-American Py Kim Conant.
This Asian-American culture sexpert wrote this book as a guide to finding a “Good Man,” one that is worthy of marrying. As I myself am marriage-phobic, my delight in Sex Secrets of the American Geisha surprised me. Py Kim Conant is adament that knowing one’s own sexuality is essential to finding a balanced relationship.

Check it out, this book makes it easy to avoid the sleazy (the bad kind of sleazy).

Wet is hot. Wet is a turn on not just because of skimpy swimsuits and the suggestion of ejaculation, but because it is a different look on the body. In other words, it enables a steady lover to view your body in a manner they might not of. It highlights different curves. It amplifies shadows. Wet is hot.

So how to present wet? Here are the basics:

1) Water (duh). In the shower, right after the shower, these are good times of attack.
2) Saliva. Licking your, or you lovers’, hand and running it over your body is erotic of both the level of the hand being sensual, and in wetness.
3) Lubricants. Flavored, colored, sparkly, massage oils, mix it up and receive attention in a whole new light.

Most of these coul be applied to woman lover as well. Except #2 (no hands) definitely impresses guys more. SO mybe #2, for a female lover, should be change to “More Hands.”

1)    Go at different speeds: This works best if you adjust speeds to find the one that really gets your partner, and then speeding up and/or slowing down, then return to speed of your lover’s choice . . .
2)    Look No Hands! (pretty self explanatory)
3)    Don’t forget the balls: or the space between the pubes and the belly buttom, or the perineum, or anything else in the vicinity.
4)    Take a break: climb back atop your lover with kisses, even get a little more loving for yourself, before returning down under
5)    1-2-3-4-5-69 . . .pretty self explanatory