http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com Sex tips and advice Thu, 29 Mar 2007 18:27:23 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en Whether trying to start a fire or spread the flames, a little secret is a hot way to ignite attention. The best secrets are the “accidental” ones. They are all the more naughty. Try wearing some scandalous lingerie and bending, stretching, bouncing, or rushing a little too much so that it ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=18 So we’re all looking for ways to keep the relationship more than alive. We all want it alive and humping. So how do we keep the humps alive and original? There’s always the old fall-back of changing the sex location. (Hey baby, how about we “dine” in the living room?)  There ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=17 Here’s an article about a poor lady who has never had an orgasm, despite her numerous partners. Its an interesting little read, and it definitely sounds like this lady needs to learn to express herself to her partners better. Here’s a clip of the response: It's possible their technique is at ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=16 This article gives some great pointers for the kissing the pubic region. The porn pictured below features Violet Blue, whose book is featured in the article. Check ‘em out: For loving the ladies: 1. Try flat-tongued figure eights over the entire length of her vulva to build excitement, as opposed to focusing ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=15 Guys can be a little sensitive about performance. Because of this us ladies must be gentle in our directions to make motions in our oceans. Sometimes we moan like we’re awash in an orgasmic tidal wave in response to a titilating ripple just to keep them encouraged. Sometimes we reach ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=14 According to this article many women don’t know how to masturbate. It the goes on to reflect on the “corrections” that were once used on women caught masturbating. Disturbing at best. So I thought I’d go over some technique, but am having a hard time not typing JUST DIDDLE IN THE ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=13 Okay, I just HAVE to repost what Dan Savage wrote back to this horny fellow having trouble banging his ballerina gal fro behind. Why? Because it is hysetrical. It displays exactly why Savage is the Sex Columnist Sultan. It also is informtive, though not as informative as Ron Jeremy (scroll ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=12 Perineum: per”i-ne’um the region of the body extending from the anus to the scrotum in males, and from the anus to the vulva in females. Yep, we have perineums too, ladies. Although it is fun to have our rubbed, my interest is in the males’. Their has many a nick-name such ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=11 So there are a bunch of tricks to this, but the biggest problem is subtlety. In my experience, a good gentle way to prolong love-making is the gentle tug on the scrotum. Yep, the best way may be to bug him in the sac. Yet you never really want to bug ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=10 So I was listening to Loveline the other week (man do I miss Adam Corolla) and their guest was the big one: Ron Jeremy. He had fascinating insights on in-and-out, but I found his schpiel on first time anal sex the most interesting. He claims many producers/directors phoned him up ... http://sextips.redhotsexblog.com/?p=9